Executive Coach (PCC) + Board Director (IBDC.D) | Award-Winning International Author at Capistran Leadership
Answered a year ago
The 10-Minute Reset: Elevate Leadership and Well-Being with Intentional Pauses. Work-life balance and well-being aren't optional—they're the foundation of sustainable leadership. In my executive coaching, I help leaders cut through noise, clarify priorities, and build habits that fuel both performance and personal fulfillment. My approach, rooted in Expanding Human Excellence(r), is pragmatic and direct: leadership excellence starts with self-awareness and intentional action. Leaders today face relentless demands. That's why I'm known as "9-1-1 for Executives"—I deliver actionable guidance when it matters most. But even in crisis, sustainable performance depends on honoring both work and life. One of the most effective strategies I recommend is the Intentional Pause: a daily, scheduled 10-minute break. Here's how it works: Set a non-negotiable 10-minute pause in your day. Step away from devices, emails, and noise. Ask yourself: What matters most right now? Where am I spending energy that isn't aligned with my priorities? What one action will move me closer to balance today? This isn't just a break—it's a reset. And the science backs it up. Research on micro-breaks—pauses of 10 minutes or less—shows they significantly boost well-being by increasing energy and reducing fatigue. A meta-analysis of 22 studies found that these short breaks help people feel more energetic and less drained throughout the workday. Even a brief walk or mindfulness practice can recharge your mental batteries and sharpen your focus. While longer breaks can further enhance performance, especially after demanding tasks, the evidence is clear: regular micro-breaks are a powerful tool for maintaining well-being and preventing burnout. It's about quality, not quantity—consistent, intentional pauses deliver outsized benefits. Work-life balance isn't a finish line; it's a daily practice. By integrating intentional, research-backed micro-breaks into your routine, you create space for better decisions, healthier boundaries, and a more fulfilling leadership journey. That's how you expand human excellence—one mindful moment at a time.
Executive Leadership - Coach | Strategic Transformation Expert | Crisis Management Specialist at Compass Setting
Answered 10 months ago
For me, work-life balance is not static. I focus on teaching people how to stay connected to themselves amidst constant change. In my coaching, I blend psychophysiognomy and epigenetics analysis to help leaders recognize early warning signs before stress takes over. One tip is to start your day or week by checking your face instead of your calendar. For example: Tension in your jaw or eyes, such as squinting or dull eyes, often reveal what your schedule won't, because, in my opinion, self-connection is the new productivity. Self-connection helps you find your inner compass and make better decisions with clarity. Focus on your real qualities instead of potential failures, weaknesses, or stress because the mind is powerful, and our actions follow our perspective.
When a client is struggling with balance or well-being, I start with a simple but powerful question: What do you want? What do you want in your life? If the gap between where they are and where they want to be feels overwhelming, we start small—identifying one meaningful habit that could create momentum for others. But more than anything, what most leaders are missing is time to think. Creating space to reflect—on what you want, what you don't, at work and in life—isn't a luxury; it's essential.
My focus id less on 'work-life balance' and more on 'work-life integration'. Balance implies everything gets equal weight, but real life doesn't work that way, especially for high performers. Instead, I help clients align their energy and priorities across all domains of life in a way that feels intentional and sustainable. One practical strategy I recommend is scheduling recovery with the same level of importance as business meetings. Block it off. Name it. Protect it. Whether it's a walk, a workout, or just unplugged time, when it lives on the calendar, it becomes part of the system, not an afterthought. I also emphasize that well-being isn't a reward for getting things done, it's the foundation that allows you to perform at a high level over time. Integration doesn't mean doing everything all at once. It means knowing what matters in the moment and having the systems in place to protect it.
Work-life balance is a slippery concept, especially for founders and execs who blur the line between identity and role. In executive coaching, I often start by reframing the idea—not as balance, but as alignment. I worked with a founder last year who felt perpetually "off," even though they had technically achieved all their goals. It turned out they were operating on someone else's definition of success. Once we realigned their calendar with what they actually cared about—family time, product work, and walking meetings to clear their head—things shifted. One practical tip I always give: protect one non-negotiable anchor in your week. For me, it's early mornings without meetings—I use that time to read, think, or just be a dad. I had to fight for it at first, even within spectup, because startup life doesn't pause. But holding that space has made me a better leader and less reactive during the rest of the week. It's not about perfection—it's about building tiny routines that keep you human.
When addressing something like work-life balance, it's extremely important that we focus on more than just like the surface-level, practical elements. People often focus so much on just trying to time-block their calendar and actively schedule time for their personal lives that they forget that an unhealthy work-life balance is almost always a symptom of a deeper problem. It stems from issues regarding one's own self-worth and a need to be productive or to stay busy in order to feel safe. People are earning their value solely through their career or they don't even know who they are when their worth isn't tied into their income or the value they bring to their jobs, and if this isn't addressed directly, then any changes to one's schedule with just be a thin veneer of a solution that will eventually crumble and fall as they slip back into old cycles. If you find yourself struggling to feel at peace when you're not being 'productive' (with regards to career and income), it's a sign that you're trying to cover up some underlying fear with your work. Some part of you doesn't feel safe merely 'existing'. You feel you need to be constantly earning your freedom. You feel as though something bad is going to happen if you are not constantly on guard, constantly producing, and constantly earning. No amount of 'time-blocking' is going to solve that problem. Focus first on learning how to confront the discomfort that arises when you try to take time for yourself and to confront the visceral fear that comes up inside of you when you're not working. That discomfort is the unresolved emotional trauma that's trying to move through you. When you've learned how to conquer that directly, finding a healthy work-life balance will come far more naturally to you. Your values and your priorities will naturally re-align when you don't subconsciously feel as though taking time for the most important things in life puts you in danger.
I teach executives the "energy audit" technique at Scale By SEO. Most leaders focus on time management, but energy management is what actually drives performance. I have clients track their energy levels hourly for one week, noting when they feel most creative, focused, or drained. The insights are eye-opening. One CEO discovered he was scheduling important decisions during his 3 PM energy crash. We moved strategic meetings to his peak 10 AM slot and reserved afternoons for routine tasks. The result? Better decisions with less stress. My practical tip: protect your top three energy hours like sacred time. Block them for your most important work and say no to everything else during those windows. Most executives burn out because they treat all hours equally. That's how Scale By SEO keeps your brand visible.
I encourage my clients to start by building a routine. Something as simple as journaling can create a sense of structure and serve as a personal anchor. For some, it might be setting aside time each day to meditate or simply reflect. Once you incorporate even one or two elements of routine into your daily life, you begin creating space for yourself -space to prioritise your well-being. Work-life balance isn't something an organization can take full responsibility for. It requires you to actively carve out moments or hours that matter to you. Only then can you advocate for your needs and create the foundation for a more balanced life. Many of my clients are juggling demanding roles alongside family responsibilities -caring for children, aging parents, or both. In such cases, balance can feel nearly impossible. But by establishing just one personal, non-negotiable practice - be it journaling, yoga, or meditation, they gradually regain a sense of control and clarity. Over time, this helps them manage their lives more intentionally, leading to greater balance and inner equanimity.
A Powerful Pause: How 10 Minutes Can Reset the Week In my executive coaching practice, I guide high-impact leaders to reclaim clarity by intentionally pausing. Often, what they seek isn't more output—but deeper alignment. When space is held skillfully, insight naturally emerges. The Three Ps: A Weekly Practice for Grounded Leadership To support well-being and work-life harmony, I introduce a simple yet powerful reflection tool: The Three Ps Pressure, Perspective, Purpose. This weekly practice helps leaders transition from urgency to intentionality. These three prompts guide the practice: Pressure - What weight am I carrying right now? This isn't about listing tasks but identifying the emotional and mental load. Perspective - What shift in view could create breathing room? Sometimes, what feels urgent isn't as critical upon reflection. Purpose - What is this situation asking of me? This connects daily actions to deeper meaning. From Reaction to Reflection This reflection requires just 10 minutes of focused presence each week. I recommend writing responses rather than just thinking them through. There's something powerful happens when thoughts move through the hand onto paper. Over time, this rhythm shifts leaders from reaction to reflection and from fragmentation to flow. The goal isn't perfect work-life balance—it's sustainable leadership that honors both impact and well-being. Maisha L. Cannon is an ICF-trained leadership coach and learning strategist who helps high-impact professionals trade burnout for clarity and flow. She specializes in creating space for leaders to reconnect with their purpose while maintaining their effectiveness.
Work-life balance usually isn't about time. It's about boundaries. Most of the leaders I work with don't need a new schedule. They need permission to stop being available to everyone, all the time. One thing I often recommend is putting real white space in the calendar. Not fake breaks. Actual time to step away, think, or just be still. The key is to treat that time like a meeting with your most important client and this step is non-negotiable. It sounds simple, but most people skip it. And when they finally try it, the difference shows up fast. They think more clearly. They lead with more intention. And they remember that they're not just here to perform, they're here to live.
In my experience, every Founder and Executive Leader needs more self-care and work-life balance in their lives. The key is to plan for it. Just like you schedule a team meeting, block time for important conversations, and lock down to complete critical projects and initiatives, so too should you schedule downtime. Actually schedule a 10-minute morning meditation or a lunchtime cardio session. When you're at home or away, practice the 'be where you are' method and focus on what is right in front of you. Set boundaries to provide better self-care for your physical, mental, and emotional needs. By owning your schedule that includes elements to enhance your work-life balance, your life becomes more complete and less lopsided.
In executive coaching, I always bring up the idea that balance isn't about equal hours; it's about energy management. One strategy I use is called calendar auditing. I ask clients to color-code their weekly schedule based on what drains them and what recharges them. It's eye-opening because most leaders have packed days filled with back-to-back energy drains. Once they see it visually, they can start protecting space for recovery, even if it's just 15 minutes between meetings. That tiny shift often leads to better decisions, fewer mistakes, and more sustainable performance.
Work-life balance isn't a side topic in executive coaching—it's central. When I coach or mentor leaders, whether internally at Zapiy or in broader circles, I always emphasize that personal well-being is directly tied to long-term performance and decision-making. You can't lead effectively if you're running on fumes, mentally checked out, or consistently sacrificing your health. One practical strategy I recommend is implementing "non-negotiable time blocks" on your calendar. This could be for exercise, time with family, creative thinking, or simply unplugging. It has to be scheduled just like a board meeting—and treated with the same level of respect. The mistake many executives make is treating personal time as optional. But unless it's protected, it will always be the first thing to get cut in the chaos of business. Personally, I block off time in the mornings where I'm unavailable to meetings or calls. That's my window to reflect, plan, think deeply, or just reset. It creates margin in a world that otherwise runs at full speed, and it helps me operate with more clarity throughout the day. At Zapiy, I encourage our leadership to model this too. We've built a culture where we talk openly about burnout, mental health, and personal limits—not as weaknesses, but as strategic awareness. And when your team sees you protecting your balance, they feel permission to do the same. Balance isn't about perfect equilibrium every day. It's about being intentional. It's about knowing your boundaries and actually honoring them. And for any executive, it starts with the simple act of treating your own well-being as a serious business priority—not an afterthought.
As a business owner in the behavioral health space, I've learned that sustainable leadership starts with sustainable well-being. In addiction treatment, we constantly talk about self-care and balance with our clients—so as a leader, I have to model that mindset within my own organization and with my executive team. One strategy I swear by—and often recommend to other leaders—is something I call "boundary blocking." It's the practice of proactively scheduling non-negotiable personal time on your calendar, the same way you would for a board meeting or clinical review. Whether that's a 30-minute walk, a family dinner, or quiet time to reset—it becomes a sacred space that can't be overridden by urgency. This isn't about being rigid; it's about building intentional structure around your well-being. In high-stress environments like addiction recovery, it's easy to normalize burnout. But what we've found is that when our leadership operates from a place of rest and clarity, the entire team culture benefits—and ultimately, so do our clients. Work-life balance isn't a destination; it's a rhythm. And that rhythm has to start at the top. If we want our teams to perform with empathy, resilience, and clarity, then we as leaders need to practice those same values internally first. That's the heartbeat of our leadership culture at Ridgeline Recovery.
In my executive coaching, I address work-life balance by helping clients set clear boundaries between their professional and personal lives. One strategy I often recommend is implementing "protected time"—a block of time in their schedule that is non-negotiable, reserved for personal activities or downtime. For example, I worked with a CEO who was constantly checking emails after hours, which led to burnout. We set aside a 90-minute window every evening where they completely disconnect from work—no emails, no calls—just time to relax or spend with family. This small adjustment had a huge impact on their energy levels and overall productivity the next day. By making this time sacred, clients learn to recharge and return to work with a clearer, more focused mindset. It's a simple yet effective way to maintain long-term well-being and prevent burnout.