Behavioral therapy has been a significant tool in helping me set healthier boundaries, especially boundaries in the workplace. Before behavioral therapy, I felt that I had to be available at all hours of the day, answering emails or phone calls or tending to work tasks. This belief oftentimes left me feeling drained, burnout, and negatively impacted my personal life. Through therapy, I learned how to break these patterns by first identifying the underlying thoughts that drove them and then challenging those thoughts. I used to believe that if I didn't respond to an email immediately, I would be seen as unreliable or that a crisis would occur. Therapy helped me reframe this thinking, teaching me that setting clear boundaries actually makes me more reliable and productive during work hours-and that it's completely okay to separate work from home life. One specific boundary I was able to establish was no longer answering work emails or phone calls after work hours. At first, I had anxiety around setting these boundaries into place due to my beliefs about what would occur if I did. However, therapy provided me with tools to manage this anxiety, helping me realize that just because I felt anxious didn't mean I was doing the "wrong" thing. I also learned how to communicate this boundary clearly and professionally to my clients and colleagues. To my surprise, I found that people tend to respect the boundaries you set, and when there was pushback, I learned how to cope with it in a healthy way. As I continued to reinforce this boundary, I also worked on shifting my mindset about self-care. I started to believe that taking time for myself actually improves my performance at work. I became more comfortable with the idea that it's okay to take a break when I am feeling overwhelmed or on the brink of burnout. By not answering emails or phone calls after work hours, I saw firsthand how this belief positively impacted both my mental well-being and my work performance. This shift has had a huge impact on my mental health and overall productivity. I have become more present in my personal life and feel more energized when I return to work the next day. It's also created a better balance in my relationships, as I am no longer constantly checking my email or thinking about work during personal time. Setting this boundary has reinforced my belief that my well-being is just as important as my professional responsibilities.
Behavioral therapy has been instrumental in helping me set clearer and healthier boundaries, both personally and professionally. In a career spanning over 30 years, it is easy to let the demands of patients, staff, and business operations blur the lines between work and personal time. Therapy helped me identify the importance of self-care and provided tools to communicate my limits in a way that fosters respect and understanding. For instance, I learned to establish a strict policy of not answering work-related emails or calls after hours unless it was an emergency. This was not just about creating personal time, it was about modeling healthy behavior for my team and ensuring I had the energy to bring my best self to every patient interaction. A specific example of a boundary I established involved managing patient expectations for appointment availability. Early in my career, I found myself constantly overextending to squeeze in "just one more patient," often at the expense of my own well-being. Behavioral therapy helped me recognize that always saying yes was not sustainable and could lead to burnout, ultimately affecting the quality of care I provide. Drawing on my experience as a senior physiotherapist, I implemented structured scheduling blocks and began delegating cases to other skilled practitioners in my clinic. This not only allowed me to maintain balance but also empowered my team to step into more responsibility, fostering growth across the board. By aligning my professional expertise with a clearer sense of my personal needs, I created a healthier, more effective practice for myself and my patients.