One moment that really changed how I lead happened when I realized that being the HR expert in the room was not what actually built influence. Early in my career I believed my job was to always have the right answer. The right policy, the right interpretation, the right HR guidance. That mindset served me well at first because it helped me build credibility as a practitioner. But when I started working more closely with executive teams, I quickly saw that leadership conversations operate on a completely different level. Leaders are balancing risk, business growth, reputation, and people impact all at the same time. The conversation is rarely just about policy. I remember advising on a complex employee situation that had implications for both culture and operations. I came prepared with what I thought was the correct HR recommendation. But during the discussion it became clear that what the leadership team needed was not just HR expertise. They needed someone who understood how the decision would affect the business, the team, and the long term culture of the organization. That moment shifted my thinking. I realized that if HR wants a true seat at the table, we have to lead as business partners, not just subject matter experts. Since then my leadership philosophy has been simple. Understand the business deeply, listen carefully to what people are experiencing, and help leaders make decisions that balance both. That approach has guided me throughout my career and still shapes how I lead today as a founder and executive.
The pivotal moment that shaped my leadership philosophy didn't arrive in a single conversation. It unfolded over years, through one employee I'll never forget. She didn't hold back on her thoughts or opinions, she was vocal, authentic, and refreshingly easy to work with. That authenticity is what built our working relationship so quickly. She was driven, but she had humor, and together we built the initial HR team and infrastructure from the ground up. It was one of those rare partnerships where the work was hard and the collaboration made it worth it. When she came to me and said she wanted to explore an opportunity with the Chief of Staff, I was sad. It was a tough time to lose someone, and I genuinely loved working with her. But I also knew that trying to keep her wasn't the right thing — not for her, and not for the company. So I went to Ryan, the COS at the time, and told him how awesome she was. Her work product, her drive, her capabilities..., I told him he wouldn't be disappointed. He wasn't. She came back to the team, first as an HR Business Partner, then pursuing her Master's at USC. When life with three kids asked her to slow down, we talked about it and adjusted together. She'd tell me when she was ready for more. She was. Today she's a Director leading a global team. That experience shaped everything I believe a CHRO's job actually is. Not to hold onto great people, but to develop them so well that they outgrow you, and to love the work enough to cheer them on anyway.
One pivotal moment in my journey toward senior HR leadership occurred when I realized that policies alone do not create culture—leadership behavior does. Early in my career, I believed strong HR frameworks, clear procedures, and well-written policies were enough to drive organizational performance. But one experience showed me that leadership influence matters far more than documentation. The turning point came during a period when a company I worked with was experiencing rising turnover despite having competitive pay, solid benefits, and clear HR policies. On paper, everything looked strong. However, employee feedback revealed a deeper issue: people didn't feel heard by leadership. Managers were focused on performance metrics but rarely created space for honest conversations about workload, career development, or team dynamics. This disconnect made me realize that HR cannot operate purely as an administrative function—it must actively shape leadership behavior and organizational culture. I remember a specific situation where a high-performing manager lost several key team members within a short period. When we conducted exit conversations, the pattern became clear. Employees respected the manager's competence but felt their concerns were dismissed. That moment reinforced the importance of coaching leaders to listen and engage, not just manage results. After implementing leadership training focused on communication and feedback, the team's engagement scores improved and turnover slowed significantly. Workplace research consistently supports the impact of leadership behavior on employee engagement and retention. Studies on organizational culture show that employees are far more likely to stay in environments where leaders demonstrate empathy, transparency, and active listening. These leadership behaviors often influence workplace satisfaction more strongly than compensation or benefits alone. That experience fundamentally reshaped my leadership philosophy. As an HR leader, my role is not only to design policies but to help leaders build environments where people feel respected, supported, and empowered to contribute. Culture is ultimately lived through daily leadership decisions, and effective HR leadership ensures those decisions reinforce trust, growth, and accountability.
One pivotal moment that reshaped my leadership perspective was realizing that many workplace challenges are not caused by a lack of talent but by a lack of clarity and trust within teams. Earlier in my career, I saw situations where capable people struggled because expectations were unclear or communication broke down between leadership and employees. That experience changed how I approached leadership and people management. It reinforced the importance of creating an environment where individuals feel heard, understand the purpose behind decisions, and have the context needed to do their work well. Over time, I came to see leadership less as directing outcomes and more as enabling people to contribute their best thinking. That philosophy continues to shape how I approach building and supporting teams today.
A turning point in my leadership journey came when a major organizational change created a lot of uncertainty for employees. At the time I was focused on the strategy and the numbers, making sure the transition happened smoothly from a business point of view. What I underestimated was how deeply the change affected people on a personal level. During one meeting an employee openly shared how the uncertainty was affecting their motivation and sense of stability. That moment made me realize that leadership is not only about plans and processes. It is also about understanding how decisions shape the daily experience of the people who work in the organization. After that, my approach changed. I started spending more time listening, creating open conversations, and making sure communication during change was honest and consistent. I also began involving employees earlier in discussions instead of presenting decisions only after everything was finalized. That experience shaped my leadership philosophy in a simple way. Strong organizations are built when people feel heard and respected, especially during difficult moments. Strategy drives direction, but trust is what helps teams move forward together.
Although my title is CEO rather than CHRO, the pivotal moment that fundamentally changed how I approach people leadership at Software House happened during a project crisis in our fourth year. We had a critical client deadline approaching and our lead developer resigned with two weeks notice. My instinct was to go into emergency mode. I reassigned tasks, pushed the remaining team to work overtime, and personally took on coding responsibilities to fill the gap. We met the deadline, but the aftermath was devastating. Within the next month, three more team members handed in their resignations. When I finally sat down with each of them to understand why, the answer was consistent: they felt like replaceable resources rather than valued people. One conversation in particular changed everything. A mid-level developer told me that when our lead resigned, I never once asked the remaining team how they were feeling about losing a colleague they had worked with for years. I went straight to task redistribution. She said it felt like watching a machine replace a broken part. That comment hit me harder than any business loss ever had. From that point forward, I built what I call a "people first, project second" framework into every decision at Software House. When someone leaves, the first team meeting is not about redistributing their work. It is about acknowledging the change, letting people process it, and asking what support they need. When deadlines get tight, I check in on energy levels before I check progress dashboards. This philosophy shaped three structural changes. First, we introduced monthly one-on-one conversations focused entirely on personal wellbeing and career growth with zero project discussion allowed. Second, we created a peer recognition system where team members publicly acknowledge each other's contributions. Third, we made psychological safety a formal part of every retrospective. The result has been transformative. Our voluntary turnover dropped significantly and our team consistently reports feeling genuinely cared about as individuals, not just contributors.
I transformed my leadership style from "business first" to listen-first after a 2024 layoff round decimated our fintech team's morale. Our engagement scores bottomed out at 28%, and I reached a breaking point during a Q3 all-hands meeting when a developer's raw vulnerability exposed the fear-based culture I had helped maintain. I chose to resign on stage, publicly apologizing for a directive style that silenced the truth. This pivot redefined my career and results. I now lead through vulnerability and psychological safety, replacing top-down edicts with a simple opening question: "What's blocking you?" I implemented anonymous pulse checks and safety rituals that prioritize the human element over the corporate directive. The data validates this human-centric shift. As CHRO, I helped flip turnover from 32% to 9%, while revenue per employee surged 44%. I know that people only fuel profits when they feel heard. My philosophy is now my competitive advantage: lead with safety, and accountability will follow naturally.
I'm not a CHRO, but as a founder who serves as the de facto head of people at Green Planet Cleaning Services, one moment fundamentally changed how I think about leadership: the day I lost a great team member because I waited too long to have a hard conversation. She was one of our top performers, but there was a friction point with another team member I kept deferring on. I told myself it would resolve itself. It didn't. She gave notice, and in the exit conversation, told me she stayed as long as she did hoping I'd address it. I hadn't. That day I understood that avoiding discomfort isn't neutrality — it's a choice that communicates where your priorities are. From that point, my leadership philosophy shifted from "keep the peace" to "address the real." I now have hard conversations early, not because I enjoy them, but because I've learned that delay doesn't protect people — it just defers the cost, usually onto someone who trusted me to lead. For anyone in a people-leadership role, the willingness to speak directly and early is the foundation everything else is built on. — Marcos De Andrade, Founder, Green Planet Cleaning Services (greenplanetcleaningservices.com)
A pivotal moment came when a high-performing specialist resigned after a promotion cycle I thought was fair. During the exit conversation, they said they were not leaving for money, but because they could not see a clear path and did not feel heard. This made me realize that my leadership style focused too much on output and overlooked the context. I knew I needed to make changes to how I led the team. I started scheduling structured career conversations and documenting growth signals that everyone could see. I also began using written decision notes so that people understood the reasoning behind tough decisions. This experience reshaped my approach, emphasizing clarity and care. Now, I focus on transparent criteria, frequent coaching and making development a continuous process instead of an annual event.
I once worked with a CHRO who met a client who paused work after being with us for a long time. The team assumed it was because of the results but after one conversation, we realized the real issue was communication fatigue. There were too many updates but they did not have enough meaning. They had optimized output without considering how people experience information. They shifted their approach by reducing touchpoints and focusing on higher-value updates. Instead of activity reports, we started sharing narrative updates that explained why priorities changed and what we learned. Internally, they began asking one question in every review which is "What decision will this enable?" and realized that protecting attention is crucial for creativity and speed.
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I once saw a leader handle a tough situation with a client that made me rethink my approach to leadership. During a review call, the client escalated a campaign issue, and my first instinct was to defend my team. But I realized they did not want excuses and they wanted ownership and a solution. I paused, then suggested we audit the process, not the people, and the tone in the room shifted. That moment changed how I think about accountability. I now focus on creating systems that make accountability easier than avoiding it. We conduct blameless post-reviews, document assumptions, and set up early indicators of risk. Trust, I have learned, comes when leaders take on pressure and turn it into clarity for their team.
In my journey as the owner of a law employment agency, the most important thing I learned was that employee retention is as important as finding new talent. With this mindset, my focus shifted to seeing things from the employee end. Everyday, I put myself in the shoes of the person in front of me. What does the employee want? How would I feel most comfortable and heard if I was in their place? Regular anonymous surveys and one on one interviews changed the game for me. This opened up empathetic communication in a way that I could always get down to the reason behind every employee action. Coming up with a solution was never an issue and if the resolution didn't harm the company, I never hesitated to implement it. These steps truly shifted my company from being rule-centric to a leadership culture.
One defining moment that usually modifies how a leader thinks, is when one understands how one workplace problem impacts several areas of an organization at once. I learned this lesson very early in my career. I was part of a team that was assigned to review an event which to most, looked like an operational problem. However, the more we sank our teeth into it, the more we realized that the problem was not merely operational. It was a more technical issue and it spanned gaps in communications, gaps in training, and expectations that were not clear in the team's interrelations. It was this experience that helped me redefine my thoughts on leadership. I stopped thinking of challenges in purely operational or compliance terms. I began to think in terms of the interrelations of people, processes, and structures. It is the absence of an engaged, supported and responsible workforce that popularized the 'compliance' or policy justification approach to problem solving. My leadership philosophy includes developing a culture in which employees feel comfortable raising concerns before they worsen. I also believe that leadership should treat concerns as learning opportunities rather than a compliance checklist. When people feel heard and supported, challenges can be overcome more readily, and the organization develops more quickly, and bolsters its operational resilience.
One pivotal moment in my career that shaped my leadership approach occurred early in a large-scale organizational restructuring. I was responsible for managing both the operational transition and the human impact, including difficult conversations about roles, expectations, and career paths. Witnessing firsthand how uncertainty and miscommunication could erode trust fundamentally changed how I think about leadership. From that experience, I adopted a philosophy centered on transparency, empathy, and proactive communication. I learned that effective leadership isn't just about strategy or metrics—it's about helping people navigate change with clarity and dignity. By framing decisions with context, actively listening to concerns, and providing structured support, I realized leaders can maintain engagement even during difficult transitions. This moment also reinforced the importance of building resilient culture: leaders must anticipate the human dimension of organizational decisions and create frameworks that allow teams to adapt while preserving morale. Today, I approach leadership with the principle that trust and clarity are as critical as operational execution, and that the most successful organizations are those where people feel seen, informed, and empowered to contribute their best.
After 2026, CHRO journeys began to reach a "trust wall." While boardroom performance measures have shone brightly, the true test of leadership rests on the factory floor, where teams have quiet, informal discussions. If you send top-down company memos but do not engage in meaningful cultural interactions, such as failing to share Andean reciprocity rituals, your teams will disengage. Training programs in emotional intelligence can also help provide new insight into negative leadership patterns. But if your team's culture doesn't allow room for remote site silos, these very same silos will begin to create disloyalty over time unless you embed yourself into those silos first. When you create generic HR playbooks focused solely on formal rules, you are missing out on transitioning between formal policies (the rules) and informal structure (the Quechua storytelling). To create scaling success with enterprise-wide retention, you must have a tested pilot prior to developing policies and develop one-size-fits-all policies designed without feedback from the pilot. Otherwise, your retention strategy is stuck in the past and your ability to achieve enterprise-wide scaling is almost impossible. Using "reciprocity rounds" (weekly team huddles for sharing stories) has reduced my attrition rates by 35%. A turning point for me occurred in 2019 during the Arequipa mill crisis, where I had the opportunity to listen to my employees' deep-seated fears at face value. By co-creating flexible policy changes with employees, I was able to rebuild their trust in me as a leader and re-establish a foundational principle of leadership for my company. Focusing on the Andes instead of Lima when leading people.
I am currently serving as a CHRO managing 2,000 employees with a 92% employee Net Promoter Score (eNPS). My leadership philosophy was not born in a boardroom. It was forged during the 2008 financial crisis. My pivotal moment was the 2008 plant closing. I was leading HR through 300 layoffs at our factory. I had promised the team "no surprises," but at the last minute, executives blindsided us with even deeper cuts. I had to sit with every single employee and face their rage, fear, and grief. That moment changed me forever. I realized that top to down communication destroys trust. That failure led me to a simple vow, which states "Transparency first, always". I stopped trying to "spin" bad news and shared the hard reality early. I started co-creating solutions with the team. It made a huge impact. During a 2025 merger, my daily "no-fluff" updates kept our retention at 94%, when the rest of the industry sat at 61%. As a CHRO, I now run "Truth Tuesdays," which are unfiltered, raw Q&A sessions with the entire company. In Sweden, people value brutal honesty over polished corporate promises. This approach has increased our employee NPS by 73 points.