hotel General Manager & Past boutique Upscale Hotel owner at Cambria, and others
Answered 5 months ago
I am weighing in as a seasoned hotel gm; people let their guard down in klsjhotels from get go, forgetting that we in general have public access to private property. This usually means anyone determined to do unsavory things enter a hotel with the mind of blending in. Here's my top reminders for the upcoming holiday season - 1. do not ask or share a specif room # when booking or share it - no one will be given access to your room to decorate or 'meet you there'. 2. the hotel shall not say the room number outloud, including when you charge a room charge in a restaurant or bar at the hotel. People listen for that and they can socially engineer access to your room with just a number and your first name if a hotel isnt screening properly. 3. If you see a package you had shipped at the front desk with you name and room blocked in sight, request the hotel move the room before you accept it. Mail/boxes will have your preblocked room sometimes and having that in sight for anyone is not ok. 4. If you booked using expedia/booking or other online travel agent, reach the hotel prior to your arrival and ask them to put your name and email on your reservation as the agencies worried about being cut out, will NOT give it to hotel and you are unreachable for emergencies or information about your stay. 5. Do not share you frequent traveller hotel reward with family as the value of your free nights earned in awards is known to be sellable/used by people who have found your membership number and literally sell it online for cash and now someone is impersonating you at the hotel using your travel rewards. 6. Expect to provide ID at check in, if you arrive at a hotel and they do not discern that you are really you by seeing ID, ask for the manager and implore them to catch up with the vigilance we all are to live with in our travel and leisure 'downtime' when our guard may not be at it's cautious mode! I have more and appreciate your reading, Steve Lambert, gm Cambria Madeira Beach Hotel, St. Pete, - ( look me up on the jennifer hudson show and people magazine!)
Resorts feel safer than they really are because everything looks controlled — staff everywhere, gated entrances, wristbands, cameras. But once you've worked in physical security long enough, you learn that the biggest risks in hotels come from small decisions guests don't think twice about. One that sticks with me is how often people leave balcony sliders unlocked. I've handled cases where intruders bypassed hallways entirely by moving across connected balconies at night. Most guests don't even consider that angle. Another problem is room-key carelessness. I've watched travelers hand their key sleeve to someone "helping" with luggage without realizing the room number is printed right on it. A stranger doesn't need to steal a wallet — they just need the room number and 30 seconds when you're at the pool. As for what guests overlook, it's usually the basics: propping open exterior doors, leaving bags unattended during check-in, assuming "staff-only" areas are actually monitored. Resorts do a good job with the aesthetics of safety, but many don't explain the practical risks clearly. A short, straight-talk briefing during check-in — even something simple like "keep your balcony door locked and don't share your key sleeve" — would prevent a lot of opportunistic theft. Most resort incidents I've reviewed weren't sophisticated crimes. They were quick decisions made by someone who saw an easy opportunity. Guests don't need to be paranoid, but they do need to treat a resort the same way they'd treat a busy airport: stay aware, secure your room, and don't assume the environment is safer just because the scenery is nicer. *If any portion of my response is used, I'd appreciate attribution as: Daniel Loo, CPP(r), PSS, SRMP — Principal Consultant at North Star Group, a Houston-based security and risk management firm.
CEO & Founder | Entrepreneur, Travel expert | Land Developer and Merchant Builder at Horseshoe Ridge RV Resort
Answered 5 months ago
I'm Billy Rhyne, developer of Horseshoe Ridge RV Resort in the Texas Hill Country. I've worked in hospitality operations for over a decade, and one of the biggest guest blind spots I see is exactly what you describe as "resort security amnesia." When people arrive at a well-maintained property, they instantly relax and assume safety comes with the scenery. But that comfort can lead to risky habits like leaving valuables outside RVs or cabins, propping open doors for convenience, or posting their location in real time online. Most incidents I've seen weren't the result of elaborate crimes, they were just crimes of opportunity created by a false sense of security. Resorts could do more to educate guests without creating fear. Subtle reminders at check-in, better lighting in transition areas, and visible but approachable security staff go a long way. At our property, we focus on what I call "quiet security" cameras in the main buildings, controlled access points to the general store and lounge areas, and most importantly- staff who know the guests by name. When guests feel seen, they act more mindfully AND feel safer. Ultimately, the best security is shared awareness. A resort can invest in every safeguard imaginable, but if guests drop their guard, risk walks right through the door.
Resort security is amnesia, because when my husband and I check into a luxury hotel we can't seem to remember how to be safe. We trust that we are protected by the gates and guards, but criminals know that we relax our anti-fraud defenses, and so they take advantage of us by climbing over balconies to unlock doors or setting up phony Wi-Fi networks so they can slurp out our data while we sun beside the pool. I've found that hotel guests frequently fall for schemes involving a call from a fake front desk at 2 a.m. asking for a credit card number, or they hold doors for strangers who are actually thieves. I want to hear from travelers who found out the hard way, and talk with security experts about why hotels are so reluctant to give us real safety briefings and just pretend everything is rosy in paradise.
As someone who travels often and helps people find reliable places to stay through Roave Travel, I have seen how easily guests let their guard down at resorts. One incident that stayed with me happened in Playa del Carmen. A family in a ground-floor room kept their balcony door open because it felt safe. While they were at dinner, someone walked in and took a few valuables. No noise, no break-in, just an open door. Many travelers forget how predictable their days become on holiday. I've noticed people leaving room keys on pool chairs, saying their room number out loud at the front desk, or posting their exact location online while at the resort. These habits don't look risky, but they make it easy for the wrong person to take advantage. From what I have seen, the simplest safety steps are also the ones people ignore: * Lock the balcony and connecting doors * Use the in-room safe * Don't share your room number in public areas * Pay attention to staff badges and uniforms * Report anything that feels off, even if it seems small Most resorts have security measures, but reminders often get lost during check-in or buried in a booklet no one reads. Clear signs near balconies, elevators, and pool areas would be more effective than lengthy instructions. At Roave Travel, we remind people of these basics because most issues happen when guests slip into "vacation mode" and stop paying attention. A bit more awareness from guests and clearer communication from resorts can prevent many of the problems I've seen over the years. Best regards, Dipti Behera Travel Expert at Roave Travel https://www.letsroave.com/ Email ID: hello@letsroave.com, dipti@letsroave.com Phone: (209) 535-3586 5432 Geary Blvd, Unit 787, San Francisco, CA 94121
What I see most often is what you're calling "resort security amnesia". As soon as people step into a beautiful property they treat it like a safety bubble. I've seen guests leave balcony doors unlocked on ground floor rooms, stash wallets in beach bags with no zippers, and flash room keys with the room number sticker still on. I've even caught myself slipping into that mindset before realising how easy it is for someone to take advantage of the distraction. When I talk to people about close calls the stories are always the same: a bag disappearing poolside, a phone lifted from a lounge chair or someone slipping into a room because the door didn't latch fully. None of these incidents involved dramatic threats - they were quick opportunistic moments. The most overlooked risk in my experience is how predictable resort routines are. Staff shifts, housekeeping patterns and guest habits all form a rhythm that someone with bad intentions can study without standing out. If I had to give advice I'd say resorts could communicate risks more clearly without scaring guests, simple reminders at check-in, better room key labelling and clearer guidance on balcony locks and in-room safes. But guests have to meet them halfway. Keeping doors locked, securing valuables and staying aware of your surroundings goes a long way. Beautiful settings shouldn't override basic safety and the people who enjoy themselves the most are usually the ones who stay relaxed and alert.
I've seen so many cases of this over the years. The two biggest safety concerns from my experience have been balcony railings that are too low and walkways with poor lighting. They result in injuries way too often. If you're out-of-state or out of the country, things only get more complicated from there. Suddenly you're navigating health insurance and liability claims. Other times, it comes down to guests' hubris. I think hotels and resorts overall need to do a better job of reminding people that just because they're on vacation, it doesn't mean they're invincible. At check-in, guests should always be reminded of safety protocols, but a lot of hotels might hesitate to do this because they don't want to fear monger. They should be educating people though. That way, guests can keep themselves safer, too. From a legal perspective, hotels have a duty to keep their premises safe, even if that means anticipating risks, especially when they know they're going to be busier than usual. That means increased chances of people spilling things, leaving side doors unlocked, and inadvertently inviting a lawsuit.
I've seen how quickly things can go wrong in resorts, both in my own travels and in the cases I've handled as a lawyer. Guests often treat these spaces like safe bubbles and forget the basics, doors left unlatched, balconies unsecured, key cards waved around. The death of Liam Payne in a Buenos Aires hotel is one of those incidents that raised more questions than it answered. He fell from a third-floor balcony after staff had already flagged concerns about his condition and the safety risk. Investigations continued for months, with competing theories about accident, impairment, and negligence, and even then the full picture never completely unfolded. For me, it underscored how fragile the line is between personal responsibility and the hotel's duty of care. From a legal standpoint, the takeaway is consistent. Hotels must maintain reasonably safe premises, especially where balconies and high-risk features are involved. But the law also expects guests to exercise ordinary caution, and once negligence is documented, an unsecured door, impaired judgment near a balcony, the liability balance shifts quickly. As a traveler, I've learned to treat hotel rooms with the same caution I'd use anywhere else. As a lawyer, I can say those small steps like latching the door, securing valuables, being mindful of access points often make the biggest difference when something goes wrong.
I observed it every single day since it is my work to fix roofs of resorts and coastal homes in Florida, and you soon find, how carefree people can be as soon as they get on a property that they consider safe. I have entered rooms during leak checks when guests left their doors to the balcony unlocked, their valuables in view of anybody walking in, and lying key cards on tables and not even three feet off the open hallway. It is this illusion of safety that helps to provide just the right person with the easy opportunity. Access points are the least considered security risks. Balconies, doors to the adjoining rooms and patio sliders are seldom approached with similar care as that of a front door. The guests also do not predict the extent to which their routines can be foreseen. Equal time on the pool, equal time to breakfast, equal distance to the room. We lock job sites in roofing as this is how intrusion can be invited and resorts are no exception. The resorts would be able to more effectively communicate risks when they treat safety as an amenity and not as a warning. The use of briefings, improved signage and prompt remembrance of locks and valuables would remind people without ruining the vacation mood. The fact that it is a beautiful location does not negate fundamental security and it is the moment that guests lose the thought about that that they will be the easiest target in the building
I've witnessed ALARMING "resort security amnesia" where travelers who would never leave their urban apartment doors unlocked casually prop open beachfront balconies for "ocean breeze," announce room numbers loudly in elevators, and leave valuables scattered across pool chairs during extended beach walks. During a Cabo research trip, I watched a family leave iPads, passports, and wallets unattended at their pool loungers for 40 minutes while swimming, creating easy theft opportunity that resort's relaxed atmosphere made them completely ignore despite being vigilant travelers at home. The MOST OVERLOOKED security aspect involves guests sharing detailed vacation itineraries and room locations on social media in real-time, essentially advertising empty rooms to anyone monitoring location tags and resort check-ins. Resorts fail communicating that their security staff cannot monitor every balcony, hallway, and beach area simultaneously - the false sense of comprehensive protection that gated properties and lobby security create makes guests abdicate personal vigilance that remains essential regardless of resort security measures and staff presence. Resorts should implement mandatory security briefings during check-in explaining common theft scenarios, showing guests how to properly secure balcony doors and use in-room safes, and explicitly stating that security staff cannot prevent crimes enabled by guest carelessness like unlocked doors or unattended valuables. Focus on maintaining urban-level awareness during resort stays, understanding that relaxation doesn't require abandoning common sense about locking doors, securing valuables, and maintaining awareness of surroundings that protects you everywhere regardless of location or perceived safety that resort marketing and ambiance create through intentional design minimizing visible security presence.
One of the most underrated security vulnerabilities with resorts is the speed at which guests lower their defenses once they arrive. I have witnessed travelers prop open hallway doors while "just running downstairs to grab a soda," or leaving keycards in towel piles in plain view before taking a lap around the pool. These are seemingly harmless actions, but they provide a low-barrier entry point for someone looking to blend in and access guest areas without notice. The truth is most resort properties are heavily reliant on predictably of guest behavior. Guests have routines every day breakfast pool room bar which increases the likelihood of convenient theft. The risk is not always broadly alarming. Oftentimes it is simply a guest returning to their unit and realizing a wallet or some other belonging was stolen after they left the balcony unlocked. The biggest gap I see is communication. Resorts usually discuss amenities, but rarely, if ever, include some practical reminders around security. Even a simple welcome message that re-enforces door safety and reminders for not displaying valuables would provide some piece of mind. If I could push one best practice it would even be clearer guest educative processes during check in, in a friendly way that does not cause alarm. The point of reference is when guests understand that relaxed does not equal careless, the overall property becomes more secure.
Image-Guided Surgeon (IR) • Founder, GigHz • Creator of RadReport AI, Repit.org & Guide.MD • Med-Tech Consulting & Device Development at GigHz
Answered 5 months ago
There's a real danger in slipping into "resort security amnesia." You step onto the property, see palm trees and staff in crisp uniforms, and your brain shuts off the part that normally scans for risk. But complacency is what opportunistic crime feeds on. It's not about being paranoid — it's about staying intentional. People who move with confidence and awareness are far less likely to be targeted than those who drift around with no sense of their surroundings. Most overlooked security gaps I see: Walking without intention. Predators look for people who seem mentally "unplugged." Shoulders down, eyes wandering, room key flashing in their hand. Unlocked balcony doors. Especially on lower floors — a shocking number of guests treat them like private patios, not entry points. Leaving bags alone "just for a second." In lobbies, at the pool, during check-in. Resorts are busy places, and thieves use that chaos. Assuming wristbands = protection. Guests forget how easy it is to blend in; most resorts aren't actively verifying who belongs where. Posting location tags in real time. It broadcasts when you're away from your room — and sometimes, when you're returning alone. Are resorts doing enough? Operationally, many are. But they rarely communicate risks clearly because it interrupts the fantasy of effortless relaxation. You get a room map and towel card at check-in — not a reminder to secure your balcony or keep your key card out of sight. The messaging gap is real. What I'd improve: Visible but subtle cues: reminders in rooms, behind doors, or via app notifications. Better lighting and camera coverage in transition zones (hallways, beach paths, pool walkways). Staff trained to discreetly flag suspicious behavior, especially around elevators or room corridors. Clearer communication about safe transportation, especially at international resorts. At the end of the day, enjoying yourself is the point of a vacation — but enjoyment doesn't require recklessness. If you walk with purpose, secure your space, and stay aware without being fearful, you reduce almost all avoidable risk. The people who get targeted aren't "unlucky." They're often the ones who move like they've already turned their brains off. —Pouyan Golshani, MD | Interventional Radiologist & Founder, GigHz and Guide.MD | https://gighz.com
In 2008 I was on holiday with my ex girlfriend. We were staying in a resort in Ibiza with another couple. We were waiting for the bus to take us into Space, the nightclub. Two other guys from our resort were also waiting. The other couple went to another club, and we ended up chatting with the two guys. They seemed okay, maybe the vibe was a little off, but since they were from our resort we assumed everything would be cool. We got into the club and they insisted on buying us both drinks. I ordered a beer. My ex girlfriend ordered a vodka lime and soda. For some reason she said she wanted the beer that day, so we swapped drinks. After about twenty minutes I started feeling high and immediately thought of those guys. I found them, and I still had half the drink left. I told them to drink it. They refused, and left which told us everything we needed to know. It was a lucky escape that I was the one who drank it and figured out what was going on. Things can get darker quickly if you are not paying attention.
I am Amir Husen, SEO Specialist & Content Writer at ICS Legal. We frequently analyze the intersection of consumer behavior, personal liability, and regulatory compliance. Resort security amnesia isn't just a behavioral quirk; it is a liability nightmare. The moment a wristband goes on, situational awareness turns off. The Illusion of the Gated Perimeter Guests see a gate and a guard, then assume the entire property is a sterile zone. It's not. The most overlooked security flaw is vertical access. First-floor balconies are obvious risks, but adjoining balconies on upper floors are frequently used by opportunistic thieves. I've seen instances where travelers leave sliding doors cracked open to hear the ocean, effectively inviting intruders who can scale dividers in seconds. The thief doesn't need a key card; they just need an athletic build and a distracted guest. The "Digital" Open Door While physical keys are waved around like confetti, the digital keys are handled even more carelessly. Guests connect to unencrypted resort Wi-Fi to check bank balances or corporate email, assuming the "Resort Guest" network is secure. It usually isn't. Hackers sit in lobbies specifically to scrape this data. That is the modern equivalent of leaving your wallet on the bar, yet resorts rarely warn guests about data privacy. Are Resorts Doing Enough? No. They prioritize "frictionless" experiences over hard truths. A generic pamphlet in the room isn't enough. Policy Change Recommendation: Hotels need to enforce verbal security briefings at check-in, similar to exit row briefings on flights. Guests should verbally acknowledge they understand balcony locks and safe codes. Without this active confirmation, the "carefree" mindset remains the default, and crime thrives in that gap.
I've seen "resort security amnesia" play out firsthand. A few years ago, while staying at a luxury resort in Mexico, I watched a fellow guest leave their sliding door open overnight to "enjoy the ocean breeze." The next morning, their bag and passport were gone. Resorts often feel insulated from the outside world, but that illusion of safety can make guests careless. The truth is, opportunistic thefts don't happen because resorts are unsafe—they happen because guests underestimate small risks that add up. The most overlooked security mistake I see is assuming the hotel staff or environment guarantees safety. Guests often post their location in real time on social media, keep valuables in plain sight, or fail to use in-room safes. From my own experience as a frequent traveler, the simplest habits—locking balcony doors, keeping keycards out of view, and using two-step verification for online check-ins—make the biggest difference. Resorts could do more to remind guests about these risks without ruining the mood. A short security briefing at check-in or a friendly in-room reminder would go a long way. But ultimately, personal awareness is the best defense. You can't relax fully if you've left common sense at the front desk.
Hi there, I'm Lachlan Brown, a mindfulness-focused psychologist and co-founder of The Considered Man. I travel often for retreats and writing and I've learned that resorts are where even smart travelers forget basic security because everything feels curated and safe. Here are my insights for your upcoming article in Forbes: My close call was in Bali. I'd come back from the pool to find our sliding balcony door cracked open and a room attendant already inside. Totally normal, except my laptop bag was visible and my room key card was still tucked in the power slot by the door with our surname on the welcome folder. Nothing was taken, but it hit me how many signals I'd left lying around: the balcony latch was flimsy, the key card with the room number sleeve sat in plain view, and housekeeping had the perfect window because I'd posted a pool photo with the geotag on. The most overlooked risks are simple. Guests broadcast room numbers at check-in, leave key sleeves on cafe tables, prop balcony doors for the breeze, or let strangers "tailgate" into elevator banks that need key taps. Phone scams are still common - a late-night call pretending to be the front desk asking you to "reverify" the card you checked in with. Safes are another blind spot; many are left on default master codes, and people assume that beach resorts mean low risk when occupancy and predictable routines make them high opportunity. What helps is unglamorous but effective. Treat the lobby like a street: keep room numbers off your voice and your photos until you leave. Slip the key card out of branded sleeves, and don't leave it in the power slot when you're out; ask for a second non-identifying card if you need the AC to run. Use the swing bar and the deadbolt, and close the balcony when you're not in the room. If the "front desk" calls about a payment issue, say you'll come down in person and hang up. For valuables, spread risk: passport in a zipped pouch you carry, laptop locked in the safe with a personal code you change, and a photo inventory of what you brought. Resorts could meet guests halfway by scripting check-in to avoid saying room numbers out loud, training staff to stop elevator tailgating, and posting one clear, friendly security card in-room that tells people exactly how scams work on that property. Thank you for considering my pitch! Cheers, Lachlan Brown Mindfulness Expert | Co-founder, The Considered Man https://theconsideredman.org/
A lot of thing contribute to the sense of security, from the huge number of cameras to hotel staff being present every 10 feet around the resort. You quickly get a sense of familiarity and once you're in your room, you feel secluded and safe, which is not always the case. From my personal experience, most of the mishaps I saw happened just there. The cleaning staff usually visit once per day (unless told otherwise) and hotel occupants leave items around that really shouldn't be in plain sight. IDs, cash, personal belongings such as jewelry, electronics (like phones, tablets, laptops) with easy access and similar. The biggest threat for me isn't any of that being stolen. It's actually someone stealing personal information that can be misused months after the vacation is finished. Personal information is more valuable than currency, because if someone steals money from you, that's only a short-term loss, as opposed to someone learning about your business or family.
Child, Adolescent & Adult Psychiatrist | Founder at ACES Psychiatry, Winter Garden, Florida
Answered 5 months ago
The most dangerous part of resort security is a psychological blindspot. This "resort amnesia" isn't just being lazy; it's a feeling we've paid a lot of money to achieve. We want to turn off the part of our brain that scans for threats. We've booked a trip to feel carefree, so we subconsciously ignore things—like a flimsy balcony door—that would break that illusion. We've mentally outsourced our safety to the front desk, assuming the high price tag covers it. I've seen this vulnerability most clearly in parents. A parent juggling two kids, pool bags, and a room key is the perfect target for an opportunist. Their brain is completely maxed out. Their entire focus is on their children's happiness, not on who might be watching them. They are the most likely to leave a bag for "just a second" or forget to slide the deadbolt, all because their attention is already spent. This amnesia also applies to our phones. A guest who is careful about public Wi-Fi at home will immediately log onto the unsecured "Resort-Guest" network. They'll then post their vacation itinerary, complete with pictures of their room view, for the world to see. They forget that digital doors can be left wide open, just like physical ones. Resorts can't fix this with another warning card in the room; we're trained to ignore those. Safety features must be built-in, not an extra chore. This means truly secure, separate Wi-Fi for each room, front desks that never say a room number out loud, and locks that engage automatically. They must design for the "vacation brain," not expect us to be on high alert.
Resort security in wildlife travel is a vital concern due to the remote locations and unique challenges of lodges and safari camps. Data collected from over 2500 travelers with Jungle Revives indicates that 42% admitted to unknowingly compromising their own security by common slip-ups like leaving doors propped open or mishandling room keys during their stays. These lapses have led to reported incidents, including minor thefts or property disturbances in around 7% of cases, highlighting the importance of continuous vigilance. To combat this, Jungle Revives has implemented comprehensive pre-arrival security briefings and ongoing guest education emphasizing simple yet critical safety behaviors tailored to wilderness accommodations. Moreover, 85% of guests rated the availability of trained staff familiar with local security risks as essential to their sense of safety, prompting Jungle Revives to partner closely with lodge operators for rigorous staff security training and emergency protocols. These insights underscore that while resorts provide infrastructure, traveler mindfulness is equally crucial; combining effective communication, staff readiness, and guest awareness forms the backbone of secure, worry-free wildlife travel experiences. By continuously addressing security awareness based on real traveler data, Jungle Revives ensures safer stays that align with its commitment to exceptional, responsible travel.