As a dating and relationship therapist, I often encourage clients to go for non-traditional first dates that allow for getting to know each other in unique, fun ways beyond just sitting at a bar or restaurant. One of my favorite activity early dates is mini golf as it brings a fun competitive spirit and gives you something to do while talking. In New York City, there are many popular spots that have mini golf and cocktails which makes for a perfect first or second date. Another more out there idea that I love for an early date is doing an escape room - it allows you to see how you work together to solve problems. Novel experiences are also psychologically bonding, another great reason to do something besides drinks or coffee for a first date!