In the early 1980s, arcades were our playground. Mark and I were already creative partners, but Space Duel—an Asteroids spin-off with vibrant color and co-op gameplay—became our secret language. We'd step up to a machine anywhere in North America—whether it was Calgary, New Orleans, or a casino arcade in Las Vegas—and punch in our names: Cleo and Wiz. Playing as a team sharpened not just our reflexes, but our connection. We learned to anticipate each other's moves, to protect one another's ships, and to laugh when the screen exploded into digital confetti. It wasn't just about scoring high—it was about trust, rhythm, and shared exhilaration. One summer, we even returned to that same arcade in Vegas and there it was: our high score still glowing on the leaderboard. A time capsule of our bond. Space Duel helped build more than just calluses on our thumbs—it built a deeper understanding of each other, something that has lasted over four decades. Truly, there's no better co-op partner in life than the one who watches your back when the asteroids start flying. Want to hear the story of when we almost got kicked out of a Vegas arcade for hogging the machine too long?
For me, it was Stardew Valley. The game ended up being the thing that really brought me closer to a friend during a tough time. It was in the middle of the pandemic when everything felt heavy and disconnected. We started playing together just to pass the time but it quickly became more. There was something comforting about the slow pace of the game—watering crops, fishing by the river, upgrading our little farmhouse. We'd talk while we played sometimes about in game stuff sometimes about real life stuff we were going through. It wasn't intense or forced—just an easy natural connection that built up over shared goals and quiet moments. What made it special was we didn't have to talk about anything deep, but we often did anyway. The game gave us a space to just be together even when we were far apart. That time really strengthened our friendship in a way I don't think a phone call or Zoom ever could. It made me realize video games can be more than just entertainment they can be a way to show up for each other.
I remember bonding with a friend over Stardew Valley. We were both having busy schedules, but this game gave us a fun, low-pressure way to connect regularly. Sharing farming tips, celebrating virtual harvests, and trading resources turned into weekly catch-ups. It wasn't just about the game; it was about creating a shared space where we could unwind and genuinely talk, even if it was through messages about crops and villagers. That simple, playful interaction strengthened our friendship in a way that felt natural and enjoyable. It showed me how something as simple as gaming can build meaningful connections beyond traditional conversations.