I got a lot of hurtful comments about my age. I was in my early 40s when I started trying and suffered from miscarriages. Some examples include: "You're too old to start having kids" "Maybe your time has passed" "Maybe it's just not meant to be" "Aren't you worried about having children in your 40s?" "Maybe you're not meant to be parents" "you can always adopt" "Aren't you worried about the complications that could happen?" "Just relax" After a miscarriage - "at least you know you can get pregnant" Anything with "at least" in it is super painful.
Are you just looking for one? During my infertility struggle that included 3 IUI's and 3 rounds of IVF I heard ALL the bad advice and unintentional, but painful, comments like: -you don't know love until you're a mom -why don't you just adopt? -just relax and it will happen -maybe you're not meant to be a mom -maybe you're too late (ie too old)