In elementary school, what did I want to be when I grew up? Teacher, rock star, entrepreneur, doctor? This is a great question to find out who knows you beyond your current life as an adult. The people who really know you may even be able to guess correctly!
My favorite question occurs early on but after, say, the first hour of pleasant getting-to-know-you talk (occupation, how long have you lived in X, boxers vs. briefs, Jewish geography, and so on), and it is as basic as this: "How about you, who I don't know but should?" Now, 96% of the time, the inquiry fails, and the conversation ends with the other person responding, "what do you want to know?" With me replying, "that's not what I'm asking," with rapt attention and a grin, it fizzles out to talk. In the remaining 4% of situations where the receiver agrees, the responses may be incredible and have created the foundation of connections I have with numerous significant individuals in my life.
Asking about someone's favorite hobby or interest can provide insight into their personality and what they enjoy doing in their free time. This information can help someone get to know you better and can lead to interesting conversations and common ground. Whether it's a physical activity like playing sports or a creative pursuit like painting, your hobby or interest can reveal your passions and what you value. It can also give others a glimpse into your unique personality and what makes you tick. By sharing your favorite hobby or interest, you may inspire others to try new things or spark a mutual interest. Ultimately, talking about your favorite hobby or interest can deepen relationships and help others understand you better.
Question: What is my favorite color? Answer: I have a love for vibrant and cheerful colors, and my favorite color is definitely blue. I believe that blue symbolizes peace, calmness, and stability in life. I often incorporate blue in my clothing, home décor, and other personal items, and I feel at peace whenever I see the color blue.