When I was living in NYC I wanted to try something new, so I joined Toastmasters. Little did I know that it would change my life! I started speaking in public, delivering workshops and early on, I had tonnes of self-doubt. Over time, as I grew more confident, people said “You’re really good, you should do it as a job!” So I did! I now run my own coaching consultancy, I’ve spoken around the world, and I coach leaders to take BOLD actions that deliver next level success. Here are my tips: • Step into new experiences to stretch yourself and grow your confidence • Develop self-awareness – recognize how your emotions affect your thoughts and behaviours, re-frame them and banish self-doubt • Take it one day at a time – because it takes practice and dedication. There’ll be challenges, but each day you take BOLD action, you’re building your confidence, getting stronger • Build that belief in yourself – you have the inner strength to get there, it’s your time to shine, be BOLD, go for it!
One effective strategy I've used to overcome self-doubt and maintain confidence is the practice of mindfulness. It's not about eradicating doubt, but acknowledging its presence and using it as a growth tool. By observing self-doubt instead of becoming overwhelmed by it, I can view the situation from a broader perspective. For instance, when launching my life coaching business, I was filled with questions about my competence, troubled by impostor syndrome, and unsure if my experience was enough. Instead of succumbing to these doubts, I mindfully acknowledged them and reminded myself of all the positive feedback I'd received from past clients. I used these doubts as fuel to continue growing, developing my skills further, and providing the best possible value to my clients.
Head down, blinders on and get into activity. Confidence is built by taking action over and over and over. When you're looking at others and thinking you should have started a year ago, 5 years ago, etc. You're making it harder for yourself. Get distracted by making so many calls, or so much content, or so many mistakes, that you don't have time to compare and your confidence will grow.
I keep what I call the “better days drawer” for the days of doubt. Every time I have a great day, or an achievement worth remembering, I add an object attached to that memory. It may just be a scrap of paper with a note that explains what happened, or a receipt, anything. As long as it will trigger the memory that I am very capable, and that great times have happened. It’s a great trick for making a rough day better, and reminding myself that the doubts will pass. Name: Rick Berres Website: https://www.honey-doers.com/ Title: Owner of Honey-Doers
Overcoming self-doubt is vital in the entrepreneurial journey. A personal tip that has worked for me is the practice of "micro-accomplishments." I've often found myself overwhelmed with doubt when facing a significant challenge. By breaking down the task into smaller, achievable goals, I focused on accomplishing each step, one at a time. With every "micro-accomplishment," my confidence grew, and self-doubt diminished. Regularly reflecting on progress and even journaling these successes can provide a tangible reminder of how far you've come. Surrounding yourself with positive influences and a supportive network can also be incredibly empowering. The entrepreneurial path isn't without its hurdles, but by focusing on growth, setting clear targets, and recognizing each success, you can build the confidence needed to succeed. The entrepreneurial path may seem daunting, but remember, every towering tree was once a seed that decided to grow!
Similar to most entrepreneurs, I let go of predictability for autonomy & self-reliance to invest in a dream & persevere to make it a reality. Mistakes and “failures,” have come & gone throughout my journey. Initially, these mistakes impacted confidence - "Am I equipped to do this? I am letting myself & others down. Is it time to give up?” In my growth, my view on “failure” shifted from an emotional response to a logical one, & also considered what was & was not within my control. Instead, I focused on what actually is controllable, which was the most impactful shift for me and my business. Viewing "failures" as opportunities was crucial to being nimble to adjusting, adding or removing services (and how we offer and market) to optimally meeting client needs. Lastly, we expect to "fail" in the future. This is how I know we are innovating, taking risks & continuously improving, which has had an incredible trickle-down effect across all employees and empowered them to innovate as well.
I think think being able to slog through hard times is key to being successful in the startup world. It's important to emember that your idea is probably going to work in some way, just that it usually takes longer and is more difficult than people expect. From there, it's just trying not to get frustrated, definitely never quitting, and sticking to the plan (or modifying the plan, if necessary).
In my entrepreneurial journey, maintaining confidence has been a transformative process. While I’ve always believed in myself and my capabilities, the imposter syndrome phenomenon at times had me questioning my position as a leader. Rather than allowing those feelings to derail my dreams, I instead embraced them as a natural part of the process, using self-doubt as a catalyst to drive my own personal and professional growth forward. Through hard work and commitment to my mission, I found my voice as an educator, advocate, and leader, which enabled me to successfully build and grow a team and expand my company into a thriving business. My advice for entrepreneurs experiencing similar feelings is to remember why you started your journey and take a moment to reflect on how far you’ve already come; prioritize a healthy work-life balance and self-care; engage in mindfulness practices; and take time for personal interests to rejuvenate your spirit and enhance your resilience.
Principal, Leadership Consultant, Executive Coach at Leadership Development Partners
Answered 3 years ago
When I coach people who struggle with self confidence, we usually begin by 1.) Identifying the values that they find important; 2.) Identifying how those values are advanced or "walked out" in the initiative or idea that they are about to offer up; 3.) Connect to the benefit that can come from advancing that idea or initiative; 4.) And then having them accept the role of the messenger for that idea, and thereby advancing those values that are important to them. It's an indirect way of having them be the agent of their own values, which can build a foundation for them later becoming an agent for themselves. Self-confidence is usually gained through little victories and successes, which can help overcome the fear of embarrassment or failure, in time.
There are two main ways that I overcome self-doubt and maintain confidence in my entrepreneurial journey. 1) Surrounding myself with community is extremely important, especially when I find myself discouraged. By surrounded myself in community that understands the highs and lows of entrepreneurship, I know I don’t have to go through anything alone. My community reminds me how powerful I am and of my highest commitments as a human being and business owner. 2) Positive self-talk and hypnosis has been a game changer for me. I’ve learned that mastering my mindset is key to my success. I’ve become my own biggest cheerleader instead of my own worst critic. I’ve learned that just because I have a negative thought, doesn’t make it true. 3) Self-care! As a solopreneur, it’s easy to become a workaholic. I make it a priority to step away and do things for FUN! I fill my own cup and give from the overflow. That means saying no sometimes and enforcing boundaries. I’m better bc of it.
I know my stories. There are a bunch of folks who have read a bit, listened to a bit, and created a graph or two. But most of them haven't sat down with real people. They don't have a name and a story to put with their new ideas. I do because, at its core, my work is always about listening more than talking. So I can pull in a story where they can only pull in a fact or a statistic. Humans are all about stories, and one story with a real person behind it is more impactful and credible than all the pithy statistics. Knowing that I have stories to tell helps me overcome a lot of the confidence or imposter pressure.
As much as I want to believe that self-doubt is behind me on my professional journey, it is a regular part of being human. Normalizing my feelings helps me deal with them. I can look at my accomplishments all day, but that doesn’t always translate to confidence or feeling sure of oneself. Owning and running a business, investing in other major projects, or meeting with incredibly talented people and stakeholders doesn’t always translate to cutting through the sense of Imposter syndrome or self-questioning I sometimes experience. What does help me is choosing to continue along, even though I sometimes feel what I feel. Courage is not acting in the absence of fear. Courage is acting according to your values in the face of fear. Remind yourself of how far you’ve come regularly. When those feelings of self-doubt crop up, that’s ok. You’re still on your way.
As a self-made entrepreneur, I'm no stranger to self-doubt and imposter syndrome. It's a feeling that can be paralyzing, subconsciously leading to self-sabotaging behaviors. One method that I've found incredibly effective in overcoming self-doubt and maintaining confidence is to continuously consume inspirational content from successful entrepreneurs in my field. Instead of watching news or random junk on social media, I read books, watch videos, and follow social media accounts of people who have achieved success in a similar niche. By learning about their struggles, failures, and eventual triumphs, I am reminded that success is a process, everyone starts somewhere and that self-doubt is a normal part of the journey towards success. This perspective helps to shift my focus away from fear and towards growth and potential, providing the motivation and confidence to continue pushing forward.
To overcome self-doubt and maintain confidence in your entrepreneurial journey, you must develop growth mindset and celebrate small wins. The entrepreneurial journey is full of challenges and uncertainties which often lead to self-doubt. Overcome these situations by embracing a growth mindset and view your challenges as an opportunity to learn and grow. Breakdown your large goals into smaller milestones and celebrate your each victory. In this way you can keep yourself motivated about your goals. As far as my personal experience is concerned, I faced a setback while launching a new product. Instead of letting self-doubt take over, I would remind myself that setbacks are part of the learning process. I'd analyze what went wrong, learn from it, and adjust my approach. Once the issue is resolved, I'd acknowledge the effort put into solving it as a small win. This perspective shifted and celebration of progress kept me confident and focused on the bigger picture.
It is a certainty you will make some serious mistakes on your entrepreneurial journey, but if you truly want to maintain confidence you need to learn to let it go. There is not an entrepreneur at any level of success who has not had some significant missteps, but simply forgiving yourself is not enough because it is easy to dwell on them even after you apologized to yourself and others. In going through the process of letting go through ceasing to reference mistakes in conversations, rehashing them in self-critiques, or making them part of your internal resume, you can move forward without that albatross hanging around your neck. In addition, you will be better equipped to use the lesson learned in future decisions. By learning to not only forgive yourself but let go of a mistake, you will be able to reduce self-doubt and maintain confidence as you move through your journey.
It's no secret that the entrepreneurial journey is riddled with moments of self-doubt. One personal tactic I've found invaluable is to stay anchored in the present through practicing mindfulness. When I immerse myself fully in the present, those nagging uncertainties lose their grip. Focusing on the "now" not only drowns out the noise but also allows me to appreciate small wins and gradual progress. There was a time when launching our recruitment platform seemed like navigating through an endless labyrinth. Doubts crept in - would companies even buy into our vision? But by engaging in mindfulness exercises, like deep breathing or grounding techniques, I found my center. This brought clarity to my decisions and a renewed sense of purpose, ultimately reinforcing my confidence. Staying anchored in the moment, I observed how my persistence began bearing fruit. New firms started joining, embracing our ethos of employee well-being and work-life balance.
Self-doubt is a common emotion for entrepreneurs, especially in the early stages of their journey. It can be difficult to believe in yourself and your abilities when you are faced with challenges and setbacks. However, it is important to overcome self-doubt and maintain confidence in order to be successful as an entrepreneur. The thing that has helped me the most is to remember why I started my business. What was your motivation for starting your own business? What problem were you trying to solve? Reminding yourself of your purpose can help you stay focused and motivated when you are feeling self-doubt.
Data Scientist, Digital Marketing & Leadership Consultant for Startups at Consorte Marketing
Answered 3 years ago
Often when we experience self-doubt, it's because we have biased opinions about our capabilities. One way to take the emotion out of self-reflection is by observing yourself in the third person. I published the Amazon bestseller, "Back After Burnout" with several co-authors as a self-help book for entrepreneurs. Looking back on that project, it was a major exercise on self-reflection. Only, rather than focusing on my successes and failures, I used them as lessons for other entrepreneurs. In a way, I was observing my actions through a third-person perspective, in order to describe them as objectively as I could. You can take this same methodology and apply it to your own behaviors. For example, tonight, reflect on the day you just had. Only, anytime you want to say "I" replace it with an appropriate third-person pronoun like "he," "she," or "they." Then, act as an outside observer and give this third person advice on how to do incrementally better tomorrow and set a few small goals.
I think being able to overcome self-doubt and maintain confidence in your entrepreneurial journey is all about being honest with yourself. If you're constantly telling yourself that you're not good enough, or that what you're working on isn't going to work out, then that's probably true—even if it's not. The key is to be honest with yourself about what your goals are, and what the realistic chances of achieving them are. Then, if you want to continue pursuing those goals, do so! If not, be honest with yourself about why not and move on from there. If anything, I think it's important for entrepreneurs to be able to recognize when they're getting caught up in their own self-doubt—and then take a step back from it so they can see things more clearly.
One of the best ways to combat this self-doubt is by maintaining a balanced lifestyle. If you let it, entrepreneurship can consume all your time and energy, leading to burnout and an erosion of confidence. I make sure to dedicate time to my personal life, hobbies, and overall well-being. This balance reminds me of why I started my entrepreneurial journey in the first place and helped me keep a clear, confident perspective even during the most challenging times.