Owner-Director | Personal Trainer | Yoga Instructor | Wellness Writer at Auburn Yoga & Fitness
Answered 5 months ago
Remain seated. Cool story coming. As a personal fitness trainer and group fitness instructor for 12 years, many folks suggested I try yoga next. Plentiful classes were available, but my trusty response was, "Yoga is too slow." But change happens. A dozen years of serving others in fitness enables a trainer the perfect degree of comfort to ignore self-needs. My body craved more love. My brain signaled me to peruse the depths of yoga practice. Perhaps. After landing on a yoga studio website, I called the owner and blessed her with a compact version of my job history. (Just knowing I was so wise and experienced!) A class was suggested. I attended despite my nerves vibrating with uncertainty at attempting this funky form of fitness-ish. I found eerie amazement in the quiet of the room, the gentleness of the instructor's voice, and soft music which seemed to magically emanate from a lit candle on a shelf. It was a bit haunting. Whatever, I just needed to stretch. By the end of class I was shocked to be dripping in sweat while starved for a protein-packed sushi dinner. This was not hot yoga. But it was a house of horsepower. After years of vigorous strength and cardio workouts, the intense static holds in yoga asana, finding my "edge," and accepting slow breathing were roads never traveled. I wanted more of this wowser discovery. For the next several years my instructor was stuck with me. Deeper assessments of my own exercise technique enabled quality corrections for myself and my clients. I was hooked. Five years later, I opened my own yoga-fitness studio. My journey in health and fitness was complete. The juiciness in slow static moves enables time and incredible insight for identifying more muscles that assist other muscles. A greater definition of sensations in the body proves our bodies are compact worlds with tons of authoritative operating capacities. That fascinates me. Emotional behavioral changes unfold as welcome and inherent adjustments. This is not uncommon. Long-term yoga practice provides a calmness alongside new wisdom. The ability to sort out and override stressful situations secretly creeps in and takes effect without our knowledge. The yoga habit I developed was and is far from slow. It's electrifying. It's a part of my life and a job I can't wait to get to every day. So, I'm on my way now!
A fitness habit that completely changed my health journey was implementing daily joint training—specifically, performing Controlled Articular Rotations (CARs) every morning. When I first started, I was strong but constantly dealing with aches, tightness, and nagging joint pain from years of heavy lifting. Integrating joint training helped me reconnect with my body in a deeper way. It taught me to control each joint independently, move intentionally, and actually feel what was happening rather than just pushing through discomfort. Over time, that small, consistent habit had a massive ripple effect. My training quality improved because I could access better ranges of motion. My recovery got faster, and I stopped dealing with the same recurring injuries. Most importantly, it reshaped how I thought about fitness—not just as something you do for aesthetics or strength, but as a long-term practice for health and longevity. That single habit made me move with purpose, which ultimately became the foundation for how I train others today.
The one fitness habit that completely changed my health journey was the shift from an intensity-focused mindset to a consistency-focused mindset. As a former dancer, I was conditioned to believe that feeling pain and deep muscle soreness after a day in the studio was not only normal but a sign of success. My body was trained to endure extreme effort and the pressure of always pushing to the limit. I carried this "more is better" attitude into general fitness. As a health coach, I now understand that this pattern is unsustainable for most people, and it was certainly unsustainable for me. Implementing the habit of consistency completely changed my results. I realized the dancer's mentality of extreme effort was great for the stage, but unsustainable for everyday health. I stopped chasing that feeling of pain and exhaustion and focused instead on showing up regularly with a moderate, sustainable effort. This meant choosing 30 minutes of gentle movement - like a brisk walk or light strength training - five days a week, rather than one hour of extreme intensity once or twice a week. The impact was significant. By moving consistently and avoiding severe exhaustion, allowed my body to build strength and endurance steadily over time, which proved far more effective than my previous efforts. I broke the mental link between fitness and pain. Movement became about care and self-respect - a way to support my body, not push it until it failed. This dramatically reduced my stress and guilt around exercise and gave me a reliable energy source every day. By prioritizing consistency and letting go of the false belief that success required pain, I transformed fitness from a demanding performance into an enjoyable, non-negotiable part of a healthy life.
The biggest shift in my fitness journey came when I stopped chasing new programs, diets, and quick fixes — and instead focused on what I could sustain. I realised that sustainability beats novelty. You can follow the "perfect" plan for a few weeks, but if you hate every second of it, you'll quit. The people who get long-term results aren't the ones doing the most extreme plan; they're the ones doing something they enjoy enough to repeat for years. Once I found a style of training and eating that I genuinely liked — lifting weights, staying active daily, eating high-protein meals that actually taste good — everything became easier. Progress stopped feeling like a battle. Consistency became automatic. Whether your goal is building muscle, losing fat, or improving fitness, the secret isn't perfection — it's finding what you love enough to keep showing up for. Sustainability beats novelty every single time.
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Answered 6 months ago
Showing up even when I really didn't want to. I used to be all or nothing with fitness. I'd crush it for a couple weeks, then life would get busy and I'd fall off completely. I kept telling myself I'd get back to it when things calmed down or when I had more energy. Yeah, that never happened. What finally worked was switching to shorter workouts that I could actually fit into my day. I'm talking 20-30 minutes, not these hour-long sessions I kept skipping. The infrared sauna workouts helped too because the heat made everything more effective, so I didn't feel like I was cutting corners. The difference was huge. I wasn't constantly making excuses about time. My body recovered faster between sessions. And honestly, just knowing it was only 30 minutes made it so much easier to get myself there. The crazy thing? Those short, regular workouts gave me way better results than when I was trying to do these intense sessions whenever I could find the time. I had more energy, felt better, and it actually became part of my routine instead of this thing I kept trying to force. Turns out the workout you'll actually do beats the "perfect" workout you keep putting off.
The one habit that completely changed my health was shifting my mindset to see food as fuel for recovery. I was suffering from chronic back pain, and while I was doing my strengthening exercises, but the pain lingered. The change happened when I made a non-negotiable habit of tracking my protein intake to ensure my muscles had the building blocks to repair. I also focused on adding specific anti-inflammatory foods to my diet daily. This single habit was the catalyst for everything. Proper nutrition fueled my muscle repair, thus allowing my back-strengthening exercises to finally work. Within months, the chronic pain I had lived with was gone. It proved to me that you can't out-train a poor recovery, and that what you eat is the foundation of your entire fitness journey.
One fitness habit that completely changed my health journey was ditching the advice from mainstream fitness magazines and committing to the Serious Growth training system, which is rooted in Russian periodization principles. Instead of following random workouts or chasing aesthetics, I adopted a structured, scientific approach to muscle growth that emphasized progressive overload, neurological adaptation, and recovery cycles. This shift helped me build real, functional strength while avoiding burnout. It also taught me the importance of tracking performance and training in phases. The results weren't just better physically, they transformed my mindset about discipline, purpose, and long term health. I gained over 20 lbs of muscle in a year naturally.
As a person building muscle, I understand the importance of bulking with a calorie surplus. At these times I lift heavy, hit protein goals, and make sure to intake some extra calories each day. The only downside I would face while bulking is gaining a few extra pounds of fat! Next after I'm done bulking, it's time to cut off the fat to really reveal that muscle. Then, being in a calorie deficit and hitting tons of cardio for my cut, I found myself getting too skinny, losing muscle and not necessarily burning fat in the process. Two extremes which I did not enjoy, I realized there had to be a healthy middleground to maintain my confidence, progress, & muscle. I started to brainstorm ways to continue to put on muscle without gaining too much fat in the process. What I found changed my health journey in a steep incline bringing forth staggering results. I began to bulk/cut on a month to month basis. In month 1, I would focus on really lifting heavy with short rest breaks, targeting all muscle groups. As for my diet, higher calories and making sure I am on top of my protein goals, as well as carbs to sustain me in the process. I wouldn't go overboard on calories however and would strive to stay within a 400-500 calorie surplus yet still put on a staggering amount of muscle and minimal fat. In month 2 for my cut, I would take a dynamic approach to my training. Instead of cardio only, I would implement weightlifting also to burn calories. For instance, each day I may do a split of 45 mins lifting and 30 mins cardio, totaling to 1hr 15mins. For my lifts, I would use lighter weight and higher reps to burn more calories for the cut. Following this, I would do my cardio to really get that calorie burn up there. For my diet, I aimed to eat light (slightly above my BMR to maintain deficit). Carbs were a must to sustain my energy & protein is very essential to keep the gains up; these main two macros can definentally be accomplished with focused and intentional eating. By the end of month 2 I am not only shredded but have lean muscle! This month to month habit has completely revolutionized my fitness journey allowing me to confidently progress at a healthy pace with minimal stress. Seeing progress will help to motivate you and keep you going. I appreciated my hard work after I would look at myself in the mirror and see a muscular, lean athlete staring back at me. If you have plateaued with your progress, you should try this strategy out!
Most everyone has had a journey with fitness or a health accomplishment. I once did a 3 -month training session to prepare for a Marathon. And that was an accomplishment. But was it life changing in ways that made me continue long-term? In that lens, there is only one routine that stands the test of time. And that is incorporating Yoga and Breathwork in my routine. Breathwork is straightforward. Without going into every type of breath routine, the minimum one can do is become aware of their breath. Is it shallow? Do you pause between breaths, or is it rhythmic? Do you have a labored breathing? A sigh when frustration sets in? First, become aware of how your breathing pattern changes. Next, learn to control it, stabilize, make it rhythmic so it flows with ease. Once you master that - trust me, you will forever change. All that we hold within us- our emotions, our stagnant energies- all come out, as the awareness on breath shifts the mind into a mode of 'ease'. Tension ease. Thought ease. Action ease. Next, the yoga. Now, here's something that people don't know about yoga. It isn't just a physical and flexible exercise. There are 4 branches of yoga- knowledge, action, meditation/mind balance, and devotion. It is said in the Ayurveda & Yoga texts that the Yoga postures (performed physically) open the mind & spirit to one of these paths of yoga. The path of knowledge seeks to satisfy the hunger for truth. Path of action leads you to do things that serve others. The path of meditation & mind balance, allows one to learn how to bring peace within and control unnecessary thoughts & emotions that cause upheaval. And the path of devotion leads one to reach their higher self. I understand, most will not look at 'activity' and fitness journey as a spiritual experience. But, for me, this exact connection of fitness with spirituality was the life changing part. It changes the inner being and core of who you are, what you're about, and your purpose. For example, the path of knowledge yoga led me to Ayurveda, the entire system of ancient science that speaks about different body types, and aligning nutrition to body types. This health journey was profound. As a physician, I learned aspects of preventive care not taught in medical school. Now, whether I go to gym or a jog, I make sure to check off my yoga, breathwork, and ayurveda boxes, to remain on this health journey.
The biggest shift in my fitness journey came when I moved from mostly cardio to focusing on strength and weight training. Now, I prioritize three strength sessions each week and use running and yoga to complement them, helping with recovery and keeping my VO2 max up. Since making this change, my body composition has transformed: I've gained noticeable muscle definition, lost fat more efficiently, and feel stronger overall. Another key part of this transformation was adjusting my nutrition to support muscle growth, especially by increasing my protein intake. For a woman in my early 40s, it is essential to build and maintain muscle mass, not just for aesthetics but for long-term health, energy, and confidence. And honestly, the results have been incredible.
One of my fitness habits that turned the tide on my health journey was when I began to work out early in the morning before my clinical day commenced. What is the owner of a dental office so busy with? The life of a clinic owner: Some days are all over the place, and energy ebbs and flows. And by training immediately upon waking, I not only was consistent as fuck but I could feel a huge bump in focus and mood. This discipline rolled over into my work life. Productivity took off, stress left the room, and I found that I had extra energy to operate in clarity and calm with all the patients who came to visit with me.
hen I was growing up, my dad led my sisters and me to do sports at quite a high level. So when I got older and dropped all the other sports and just focused on my own fitness, I already had a good grasp of exercising. I was comfortable with the techniques, training volume, rest periods, and all the stuff I grew up with. One thing we never focused on, and now I realize it was a big mistake, was diet. That carried into my own fitness journey. Because of that, once I ran out of the first newbie gains, I thought I had hit my limit and couldn't building more muscle. Then I started watching some content and learning about how important a proper diet is, things like eating enough calories and getting enough protein. Once I implemented that, I saw a huge difference in my physique and in how I could control gaining or losing weight. I stopped eating just to not be hungry and started thinking about food as a tool to reach my goals. That fitness habit completely changed my fitness journey. Now I'm trying to convince the rest of my family, especially my parents, as they are getting older, to be more intentional about what and how they eat.
One habit that I follow is a 20 to 30-minute morning walk, every day. It gave me a simple anchor - light cardio, sunlight, and a quick mood reset before the day picked up, which steadily lowered stress. I just kept showing up, and the results added up like steadier weight, more energy, and clearer focus at work.
It completely changed my journey when I began tracking. I kept a track of my workouts and my meals. I even began tracking little victories like getting enough water. Recording everything allowed me to maintain a consistent level of achievement and demonstrate how much I was able to accomplish, even on terrible days. I noticed things and improved them by tracking everything. I changed my diet or paid extra attention to my workout depending on the week. I gradually improved my strength, stamina and health. It also encouraged me to act. I could not only rely on my mood day by day but also identify valid patterns.
I stopped eating gluten and limit carbs in general. Also I gave up drinking which has been the best thing that I've ever done for my health and overall wellbeing. Ashley Grace Chief Marketing Officer Igniton, Inc. https://www.igniton.com/ https://linkedin.com/in/ashleygrace
The habit that completely shifted everything for me was **dual-tasking during workouts**--combining physical movement with cognitive challenges. After getting my Brain Health Trainer certification, I started testing this with my own morning walks by doing mental math, reciting grocery lists backwards, or identifying bird species while hiking. Within about 8 weeks, I noticed I could hold client conversations more sharply even at the end of long training days, and my own reaction time during trail running improved noticeably on technical terrain. I implemented this with a client recovering from knee surgery who was getting bored with basic strength work. We added memory games during her balance exercises--recalling a sequence of numbers while doing single-leg stands. Her proprioception improved 40% faster than my typical post-op clients, and she stayed mentally engaged instead of dreading rehab sessions. The real impact was finding that strengthening your brain while moving your body creates this compounding effect. You're not just building muscle or burning calories--you're literally rewiring neural pathways that help with everything from remembering where you parked to preventing falls as you age. I've been doing this for three years now and my focus during long audiobook sessions has dramatically improved, which shocked me since I'm in my late 40s.
The habit that transformed everything for me personally and for the members I coach was **treating recovery like a performance metric**. For years I pushed intensity in every session--more reps, heavier weights, longer classes--until I hit a wall where my energy tanked and minor injuries kept creeping in. I started blocking 20-minute mobility sessions twice weekly into my own calendar the same way I scheduled client appointments. Within six weeks my squat depth improved, shoulder pain from years of overhead work disappeared, and I could actually sustain higher training volume because my body wasn't constantly fighting tightness. One member I coach adopted this after plateauing on her deadlift for months--added two 15-minute foam rolling sessions weekly, and broke through to a new PR within three weeks because her hamstrings finally had the range they needed. The shift wasn't just physical. When you stop treating rest days as "doing nothing" and start viewing recovery as active work that builds strength, the guilt disappears and consistency becomes automatic. I track recovery sessions in my training log right next to heavy lifts because they're equally responsible for my results. That mindset change alone kept me from burning out during our busiest training seasons.
The habit that completely changed my health trajectory was **committing to workout at a specific time every single day**, no matter what. When I got hit with that pre-diabetic diagnosis in 2015 right after my son was born, I was stressed, overweight, and sleeping terribly--classic case of letting business ownership consume everything. I hired a trainer and made 6am non-negotiable, and within a year I'd lost 50 pounds and reversed my pre-diabetic markers. What made it stick wasn't willpower--it was removing the daily decision. I didn't wake up and ask "should I work out today?" The time was locked in like a client appointment. That consistency is what let me eventually compete in bodybuilding in 2019 and later box in my first amateur fight while running Legends Boxing nationally. The spillover effect shocked me most. When your fitness is locked in, your nutrition naturally tightens up because you don't want to waste the work. My sleep improved, my stress management got better, and honestly my leadership at work leveled up because I was modeling discipline instead of just talking about it. Members at Legends tell me the same thing--once they commit to their 3 classes per week at set times, everything else falls into place because the anchor habit pulls the rest along.
The habit that changed everything for me was **tracking energy levels instead of just tracking weight**. When I started VP Fitness back in 2011, I was obsessed with the scale like most people--but I noticed my most successful clients weren't the ones losing weight fastest, they were the ones who felt dramatically better day-to-day. We started having members rate their energy 1-10 every morning, and patterns emerged fast. One client's energy jumped from a 4 to an 8 within three weeks just by shifting workout timing and adding one extra rest day--her weight barely moved, but she started crushing her work presentations and playing with her kids after dinner instead of collapsing on the couch. This completely changed how I program training at VP Fitness. Now we adjust based on how people *feel*, not just what they lift or what the scale says. When someone reports sustained energy improvements, their body composition changes always follow within 4-6 weeks--but if we only tracked weight, we'd miss that early signal that tells us the program is working. The practical move: Start a simple notes app entry each morning with your energy number and one sentence about sleep quality. After two weeks, you'll spot exactly which habits drain you and which ones fuel you--that data is worth more than any scale reading.
I've been running gyms for 40 years, and the one habit that changed everything for my own health--and what I now push every member to adopt--is **tracking your workouts in writing**. Not your weight. Not your calories. Your actual performance: sets, reps, weights lifted, how you felt. I started doing this back in the late '80s when I realized I was just "showing up" but not progressing. Once I began logging every session, I could see patterns--like realizing I'd been stuck at the same bench press weight for three months straight. That accountability forced me to add just 5 pounds every two weeks, and within six months I'd added 60 pounds to my max. My energy levels shot up, my sleep improved, and I stopped getting that afternoon crash. At Fitness CF, we encourage members to use journals, apps, whatever works--but the act of writing forces you to confront whether you're actually improving or just going through the motions. We've seen members break through year-long plateaus within 4-6 weeks just by tracking and applying progressive overload. The data doesn't lie, and neither does your body when you give it a reason to adapt.